Part II of my side topic!
Still feeling quite emotional today, another problem to add on to the friends and boyfriend post.
Okay, so we just analysis if having boyfriend would be important than having a group of girlfriends.
When you're in a relationship for the honeymoon period for the most 3 months, you would feel as though you're the happiest girl.
You would feel, wow... I'm so lucky and stuff.
But after the 3 months, honeymoon period is over, who will still be by your side? What I mean by honeymoon is over is that when you and your bf starts to fight and quarrel.
The other alternative for you to seek to is your family and friends right? But when you're so busy with your bf, you would seldom meet up with your friends to talk and updates with the recent you. So they would not know what exactly is going on. Who can you turn to now?!
Family??
okay we don't talk about families first. Okay, then we analysis having a group of girlfriends would be better.
wow.. girls get together and talk could be enjoying. Meet up almost everyday and talk or shop.
You'll eventually feel bored and lonely. Cause you don't have a specific person to dote and 'sayang' you.
Then now you would need a boyfriend to be by your side. Then how? immediately find a boyfriend?
Or just seek your suitor to dote on you?
That would be bad right..
Now another problem, attached better or single better?
Any comments?





ps broken english more of my problems coming up.
Signing off at 31/12/08 at 3.08am

side topic

Is having a bf really that important for women?

I don't understand.
I've come to realise that women really need to get married one day.

Now it may seems like having really good friendships might be important.

Kinship is definitely more important than anything.

But does it means that having a boyfriend is also important.

Having a good relationship is better or having a group of girlfriends together will be better.

In the movie, they always shows that having a group of girlfriends would be able to console you when you need them.

But the real life is not really this way.

The fact is having a group of girls together, there would be political problems.

Women or girls always gather to gossip, of cause i'm one of them.

But the thing is having a good of really understanding girlfriends is difficult.

I'm not saying that i don't have any good girlfriends.

But the number of those who really understand me, i can hardly count.

Or maybe having a boyfriend is better.

Cos at the end of the day, it might be 'this' boyfriend who'll really spent the rest of the lifetime with you.

Not your friends.

I'm really very puzzled now.

Maybe its because of some personal reasons that makes me feel this way, but it really seems like it.

I know that everything has its pros and cons.

But who will be the one, eventually, heal the emotional part?

Families , Friends or Boyfriend?

Who has the answer?

ps broken english.

signing off at 6.12pm

29/12/08

At the end of the day, went to Jenny's house to play mahjong!
haha won a bit.. but didn't really bet on money, as Jelene don't know how to play so don't want take advantage of her! =D

Excited face, as i'm imagining i'm at korea

Looking at the pictures Jenny took during her Korea trip!

Wow... Feel like going korea after seeing those pictures

We shared this!!!

Taking pictures while Jelene went to bought the desert! =)

Niu, don't take a picture of me unprepared!!

heehee.. =D

Niu, whats with that face?? haha

oh ya, bought a pair of shoes at Bugis.

Settled down for dinner, as all of us were feeling tired from all the walking, especially me!!!

heading to the next stop,

Bugis, to get some things for our friends..

Bought a watch n dress there.

Getting something to drink at 7-11.

at heeren's adidas shop waiting for Jenny as shes choosing the green adidas jacket she wanted years ago.

Bought a headphone, stereo technical at heeren's HMV.

Jenny!!! :)

Me and Niu..

Niu and Jenny! waiting for mrt to head down to heeren...

*Volleyball BBQ on 22/12/08*

We had a lot of fun.
Jenny, Vivien, Tania and me, we each won a trophy.
I got a Best Attitude player,
Jenny got a Best performance player,
Tania got a Most improvement player
And for Vivien, She got Most Valuable player( MVP)
hahaha Photos will be updating soon!

*Girlfriends gathering for x'mas celebration on 23/12/08 *
Went out with the girls at night to celebrate x'mas
haha just taking photos n eating dinner only as my leg hurts.
So cannot walk much.



Signing off at 26/12/08
At 12.20am

Christmas countdown at Vivo city!

:D had a countdown dinner with my family at a resturant name Marche!

Its a very cool place with unqiue ambience.

Didn't go orhard such place to countdown cos its too squeeze and warm.

Not in a mood to elaborate what we do that night.

24/12/08

Girlfriends x'mas celebration at town!
enjoyed ourselves on 23/12/08